I have been falling behind on my field reports thanks to my computer dying but after getting it repaired, I am excited to share this one. The night before, I almost pulled but found that I was cockblocked by a girl’s friends joining at the last moment. I was without a wing which made the whole thing even more difficult.
Come Friday, I go to Regatta. I was supposed to meet up with a wing and I do but things go sideways fast. I do a set which my wings do not help me with at all and the set goes on for a solid 30 minutes. I cannot pull at all and see no compliance but still get their Instas.
A temporary low but mental shift.
I am in a rough spot now. My wings have left me out to dry and I have been abandoned. However, I had done something different this time around when going out. Early on in the night, I went around and talked to a bunch of dudes who seemed cool and told them that if they see me talking to a group of girls, feel free to wing me.
Well, I approach this hot pale brunette near the food stands at Regatta. The area of the bar is usually where all of the cliquish college crowds hang out. However, something hit me mentally in that moment.
I just came from Europe and come summer, I will be traveling around even more. In some ways, I felt detached to not just the outcome itself but to Miami. I felt as if I could make a fool out of myself on the approach and give no fucks. So I go in and open this brunette and her blonde friend, both were kind of cute.
The brunette was a foreign exchange student from Norway of all places. To my surprise, the blonde friend is not an aggressive cockblock and lets me work my game. My opener to the brunette was that the all black looks great on her. I know I am in a good spot since I am talking to a foreign exchange student rather than some spoiled and cliquish sorority girl.
I DHV my Euro trip and the blonde said she went to Prague where some drunk English dude flashed his flaccid cock in her face. I guess this was a great intro to sexualization? I mention the Proseccos which were had on the trip which become relevant later on.
The pocket starts to collapse.
For those that follow American Football, “the pocket” is this space behind the Offensive Line but in-between the far end linemen where the Quarterback steps up to the throw the ball. The Line protects the Quarterback from incoming defenders but once they have infiltrated, the pocket has “collapsed”. At that point, the Quarterback must run for his life and either scramble for some yards or throw on the run.
Well, figuratively speaking, this is what was happening to me. I notice that the cliques start to interrupt the set but the girls were engaged in our conversation. A couple of the guys were U Of Miami students that are usually out with a mixed crowd so I know I had to get the girls out of there or my set would be over.
Thankfully, I get compliance from them and move them to a different part of the venue, telling them how it has better views of the boats.
Early investments pay off.
I spoke to some cool Cuban dudes earlier in the night and one of them joins the set. The blonde is entertained by him as I work the brunette. I hype up my place and all of the amenities it has. One of the amenities is a pool table. Throughout, I had also sexualized with my tone and eye contact.
I looked at this chick and after looking in her eyes, imagined all of the dirty things I would do to her. Well, thankfully she got the vibe.
I bring her back to my place to play pool and we play for a bit. Not long after, I ask her to get Proseccos in my apartment. We go up, make out, and fuck.